Monthly Archives: December 2013

Tinder luck

okay, this is a tough write, I have been on 2 dates with this guy, I am rolling them into one, and our first date was now over a month ago. So of course the details will be fuzzy. I did text the cute boy from the gym who is also seeing someone he met on tinder, so I have some notes. Okay…
I was laying in bed one friday morning flipping thru tinder, checking the yes and no boxes as pictures flashed in front of me. I clicked a yes, and a few minutes later I had a match. We messaged back and forth while I got ready for work and then we switched to text. He lives in Vancouver but finds himself in the area (vernon, kelowna, penticton) every couple of weeks. We decide to meet for lunch, but both got caught up at work and rescheduled for dinner. He was a touch late meeting me, and I surprisingly didn’t leave. Not knowing how this would go we sat at the bar and had a drink. He was interesting, smart, we had a number of things in common, we moved from the bar to the dining room and had an amazing dinner, we ordered the same thing, and chatted easily for 2 and a half hours. After dinner we moved our date to a coffee shop, really cool retro book store with a cafe. We both had tea and continued to chat, we had both been in long relationships, we both blogged, it was both of our first tinder dates, we shared a number of the same views on issues. It was a great time, and a single drink turned into a 5 hour date. He hugged me and kissed me sweetly on the cheek requesting I message him when I got home safely. The next day he texted me and told me I was beautiful, and that in his nervousness the night before he had forgot to tell me. We texted back and forth for a couple weeks him sending my inspirational links, videos, and asking a multitude of questions.


This man is smart and sweet. He was back in town for work 2 weeks later and we arranged another date. I picked him up from the hotel and he had flowers for me, he had searched for my fave, but had to substitute other varietals of daisy. All very sweet. We went to chronic taco, and then to Mission Hill, wine tasting and a drive, chatting away. It was a grey blustery day but as we emerged from out wine tasting the sun came out, it was gorgeous!



After our wine tour and photo shoot we wandered down town shopping and chatting. This man a perfect gentleman, opening every single door, walking on the outside of the sidewalk, between me and traffic, and would not let me pay for a single thing. Something I find a little infuriating, not that I can’t appreciate gallantry, but that I feel men and women should be equals. Maybe I’m simply not used to it. We did a little boutique shopping and I tried on this dress hoping for a laugh, actually it wasn’t that terrible…

He is lovely, smart, sweet, Asian, and lives in vancouver. So logistically it’s hard to see him more, but it gives me an added reason to go down for a visit! And it makes tinder, a win.

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Maybe overwhelmed

I have so many things to write about, I am having a hard time sitting down and writing, and every day it seems something new comes up, today for example, yoga workshop, and a date. All I want to do is spend the day in my Jammie’s, cleaning my house and burning CDs. Bahhh. Even now, waiting on an appointment and blogging on my cell phone. Maybe tomorrow, after yoga, and the drive home I’ll have time? Aghhhh.

Miss me??

Hey everybody. Can you believe its been more than 3 weeks since I last blogged? Holy time flies, I have a couple dates to write, and have been out and about doing stuff, spending extra time with Caramel Latte. Unfortunately I have also had so issues with staffing at work, and done a whole lot of driving, plus a calgary trip, so although the kid time was great, it cuts into my blog time. Excuses.. I know. This next 10 days is crazy at work, and then it dies while everyone sticks to the 2 or 3 weeks of New Years resolutions. I have been challenged to eat Paleo for 30 days in january, and I think I will do 30 min of cardio daily as well, in addition to the 15-20 min of meditation I have been doing. Promise to catch you up on the stories soon!!

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I am a fan of Liz Lemon on 30 rock, a perpetually single, working woman. A bit of a mess, but so very funny. When my ex moved out I watched seasons worth of episodes, back to back to fill my time. I like the expression “Blerg”. It’s all I could think of today when I discovered that the new person I hired, couldn’t start tonight and I would have to go back in. I fired someone today, actually they didn’t show up for a shift yesterday, and essentially fired themselves. But unfortunately that leaves me in the lurch. I have a pile of staff, but… sigh. Regardless, my plan tonight was to blog, return some calls, have a phone date with Cherise, instead I’m going back to work. Blerg. Double Blerg.

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